What’s that mind boggling situation or an event happend in your life where you felt happiness like never before. You felt like this was the moment you waited for and your heart just bloomed like a beautiful flower blooms out. Hey, and can you remember that phase of your life when you left helpless had not idea or solution to it and was worried where to and and how to handle the pain. Then, where you got confused about the man you saw next street and was thinking of him whole day and trying to remember where you had seen him before. Also to your reminder, did you get thought of that horrific situations in your life if you saw a horror movie or faced some uncomfortable and disturbing deaths. You also might remember one of the times when you got into anger at very high extent that you even if wanted could not control it. Take yourself to that situation where you felt like you got this! You felt confident about yourself. You knew how strong you are. Well, all these are related to any one who is reading this because everyone faces these circumstances and being a human emotions are part of our system. It’s not new to all of us what emotions are. But what’s not new is that it’s okay to have them, all of them. It’s completely fine. You can’t wish or think of being happy all the time. That’s not what life is about. Happiness gives you a sense of satisfaction and relief because you have sacrificed and worked hard for that happiness to be felt or in other cases of happiness where by just dancing in rain you feel happy is because all worries you forget. Imagine about what would happen if the aspects you have realised by your mistakes or bad events would not be conquered by you if they won’t exist. You would realise nothing. And realisation is the first step towards understanding the working system of so called “Life”. So stop saying why bad things happen to me! They happen to make you realize. All about you living a life is learning. You are master of your mind.
All you need to think about is today. And by thinking it means thinking about what will i learn today and not running behind having great day. Emotions are fine. Let them out. It’s not possible that you will not face any obstacles. Things might hurt you. Learn from them and give it back as hard as the Newton’s third law. Can we just normalise that crying out is ok or having fear about something is fine though it’s a so called MAN or a woman. What is not okay is sticking to that sorrow for long time and instead of making it your weapon, making it your weakness.
People often judge feelings as “good” or “bad” by whether or not they are pleasant or unpleasant: Happiness is good, while anger is bad. Why so? Emotions, whether pleasant or unpleasant, are adaptive and useful, providing and teaching important lessons. In other words, even unpleasant emotions can be “good.” Just a pure perspective is needed for that to inherit.
When you get anxiety about something which you have already faced and had got hurt by it. Since you experienced that particular emotion, you had the motivation to take action and do something positive to improve your chances of not having or experiencing that particular feeling again. That’s what is learning.
So, from now cry when you feel like crying, do all your mood fixers stuffs like having a ice cream or listening to your favourite tracks. Accept every emotion and enjoy the process of experiencing and learning. And just like are keyboard is full of emojis make your life full of emotions!
Namita Thapar and her tweet of the decade!
Namita Thapar: Let’s fix the work-life balance to have a more productive and mentally fit generation.
Executive Director of Emcure Pharmaceuticals and Shark Tank India Judge, Namita Thapar recently tweeted something which started an online debate. She expressed her views on how employees are living a life that is focused on working, and in this, they forget that they have a family as well. Also She asked people to stop wearing the badge that, ‘I work for long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for the family’. She also urged all her fellow entrepreneurs to take steps to improve and maintain the work-life balance of their employees in all the companies. She further added that maintaining the work-life balance of the employees will ensure that, ‘we have a mentally fit and more productive generation’.
“Stop wearing ‘I work long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for family’ as a badge of honour. Let’s fix work life balance at all companies so we have a mentally fit and more productive generation next that get quality time and involvement from both parents”, said Thapar in her tweet.
Thapar’s this tweet caught attention of all the entrepreneurs and common man as well. This tweet sparked an online debate. Majority of the people came in the support of this tweet. They agreed to the statement of Thapar, and said that having a balanced life can help you in many ways. Some of them also came in to support the concept of 4-day work weeks in India. She suggested the companies that they should create a less-pressurized environment in the work-place so that employees can balance their work life and personal life balance.
Earlier this week, Thapar shared her views on the importance of being inactive. She said that not doing anything can increase the productivity of a person, “alone and quite time for reflection is a must”, she further added in her tweet.
This tweet became a topic of debate because this topic affects the common men and their families. Maintaining a well-balanced life will not only help them to spend time with their family, but it will also help them in maintaining good relation with their family and friends. This will bring harmony to the family. Most of the people commenting on this post are common man, and they have completely agreed with Thapar’s thoughts. Her tweet has been re-tweeted around 1,183 times and liked by around 8,000 people. She has received a very positive response from the citizens. This tweet got the eyes of many people and her thought was well appreciated.
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In today’s world it’s an undeniable fact that everyone out there wants to look good. Who wouldn’t, right? An ordinary man can look extra ordinary by adopting few things in his clothing sense.
But one should keep in mind attractive clothes never attracts the person. The way you carry out them, they way you present yourself will make you stand out among the crowd. I am not thoroughly saying the clothes don’t attracts the person, they do attract but we should know perfect combinations, day today styles and should be updated according to the trend.
If you apply few things surely you will be able to impress or attract the person. Here are the few tips will make you look sexier.
This seems quite simple. The rolled sleeves? Yes, the rolled selves can make you look incredibly sexy and attractive. Women find forearms attractive – If you work out 5-6 times a week, incredibly your forearm will impress anyone out there. When you wear a long sleeve shirt do try this, it will suddenly make you look 100x more attractive. This makes you look manly, cool, bit casual and totally approachable. The best thing about this style is that, it works on any kind of long sleeve clothing- a sweater, button-down shirt, Henley, jackets etc.
Mostly men look stunning in the suits. This is the time when you attract the person or leaves your impression behind. That’s the reasons why the all women find Zayn malik sexy. Its not only because he is a good-looking man. It’s because he is a handsome hunk when he’s wearing the suit. Well-fitted, clean cut and the classic one. The thing here matters is not just about what you are wearing, its also about how you’re wearing it.
You won’t look attractive, sexy, capable and powerful in the suit if the fit isn’t right. To get the right fit, make sure the jacket suit fits good at your shoulders snugly. The important thing the sleeves should just end 2 fingers about the wrist bone. Pants should match the jackets, with a proper length and proper fitting. If the fits don’t match your size you can go with personal designed suits.
The stylist shoes:
You won’t believe but the most of people starts looking at you right from the shoes. The shoes are the first things the attracts the attention of many peoples. Actually, shoes can make or break even the most attractive outfit for man. Generally, men don’t care much about the shoes and goes with any kind of shoes with any kind of outfits. This thing may make you look unattractive to women. If you don’t know much about the shoes try wearing the leathers shoes. It will make you look attractive. According to survey it is stated that women seem to find men who wears these shoes as more masculine, intelligent and sexually mature.
Solid tee or Henley:
The solid tee and Henley are the simple outfits for men that will make you look attractive. Talking truly Henley are undeniable sexy. They are also considered better then pain tee. Sometimes solid tee may go out of the style but Henley never go. Mostly the Henley go matching with jeans or any casual pants. It said that in a sea of men wearing t shirts, you will stand out. While still enjoying the comfort of wearing the casual clothes.
The leather jackets the nuclear when you talk about looking sexy. The leather jackets are tough but very smooth to touch the women attention. Leather jacket over a solid tee can make your looks upgrade to grade A.
Leather jacket is the thing that all men need to add into their wardrobe. Talking about the facts wearing the leather jackets makes a guy feel more confident. The most important thing man who looks confident can make anything he wears sexy and stunning. Its doesn’t matter he do have a good brand clothes or a good physique. But if she carries himself and look secure with himself and capable of things happen. Then he will be the sexiest man in the room.
IMP:Make sure you don’t judge anyone’s character or a personality with his/her brands. Start investing in yourself, because that will make you look sexier. Investing in a wardrobe won’t make you look sexier. The worst but best truth of today’s world is women finds the men sexier and more attractive who works on themselves, for their dreams, for their passion.