Usually, actors and actresses play roles on the big silver screen but this actress has played various roles in her real life. Where in today’s world women tend to move along with men head to head this woman tries to prove it with her work and luckily we got a chance to interview such a beautiful and talented women through paradox who is also an actor but most importantly a frontline warrior who is rock solid on duty in this tough times.
Yes, you are right we are talking about someone we recently interviewed “Bebika Dhurve”.
At first, I was a bit nervous to interview such a great personality. Because you know she has done a great amount of work and has proven herself at every stage of her life be it her fat loss journey or working as a frontline warrior, or managing two careers simultaneously. Now enough with the hints, let us get into the real chat we had with her.
Q. Tell us about your journey?
Bebika: My journey has been a roller coaster, I wanted to become a doctor (dentistry) and I was always passionate about it but while pursuing it, when I went on my internship my teacher commented “Bebika you have great face what have you done to your body” that comment hit me very hard but not in a negative way but in a positive way. I always used to admire my teacher and getting such a comment was a great deal. So to get my body in shape, I thought that modeling might be a good option, and pursuing my dentistry alongside would also be beneficial for me.
Q. Tell us about your fat loss journey?
Bebika: Being a foody and a fat kid as a child it wasn’t easy for me to achieve a body transformation journey as a kid I used to be kind of “tomboy” and growing up I became a foodie pizza, ice cream became my weakness, I also used to get bullied a lot for being fat but those things never bothered me as it didn’t come from an authentic person but after getting a comment from my teacher “Bebika you have great face what have you done to your body” positively hit me and gave me the boost I needed to transform myself from fat bebika to super hot model Bebika Dhurve.
Q. When did you decide you could manage multiple careers?
Bebika: Growing up I was always passionate about becoming a doctor and eventually after completing my school and continuing my graduation I lost a lot of weight through workouts and exercises and eventually I started looking good. looking good made me realize I can also use makeup as a tool to enhance my beauty and it did the workout. But my passion for dentistry didn’t vanish so, I decided to give priority to my studies first after finishing, as I live in Mumbai I started giving auditions for and I got selected for different brands and they hired me for their work. I also got complimented from one of the agencies that I look like “Aishwarya Rai”. Today I am working on my dentistry and planning to go to Dubai for the same and I will also work as a model through my Instagram and will also find some work there once this pandemic stops.
Q.Tell us about your work as a frontline warrior?
Bebika: This second wave of covid has hit our country very hard and it didn’t even spare my parents. Recently my mom and dad both got covid positive but now they have recovered from it and tested negative they are safe and sound at home. Being a doctor I decided to help my fellow citizens in this tough time of covid. Wearing those huge PPE kits and working all day long is not at all easy but seeing my fellow citizens suffering from this deadly virus motivates me to go out there and help those in need in any way possible. Being a frontline warrior I work day and night to help the patient and save their lives from this deadly virus.
Q.What do you prefer quality content or quantity content?
Bebika: I prefer quality content over quality content. In today’s social media generation people might not like to watch a huge amount of videos instead they would prefer few videos with good content. And would I believe the same if I was also were a viewer? Quality content not only helps you to acquire your true audience but also motivates you to generate more and more good content for your audience. This will also help you to grow.
Q. A message for everyone out there?Bebika: Whatever you like to do, just do it. Because if you put the sort of effort into everything you do as if it all matters, you’ll succeed at last.
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The problem solver element: Self Motivation
Theses days all of the people are integrated with the negative thoughts and feel demotivated. Seems we have lost the battle, we have dropped our weapons and surrounded. Then the question invokes can we get spark to do our things ? can we make our life better than before/now ? Yes, for sure you can do. Just you need to find the reason and lit your lamp with the spark of desire. In short amtanirbhar – motivate yourself. It’s not that difficult or out of the context as we usually think. It’s pretty easy if you are determined but terms and conditions are always applicable.
The first thing you need to do is to find out the thing you love to do most, then try to engage in. As we know success or the happiness is hidden in the work we love. As per human nature we all want to achieve our goals. We day dreamed about that, we always imagine that situation. What if really you are there, so let’s take a step closer towards it. Make your day plans- own plans execute them try to fix bugs and errors that leads you out of it. Adding up the days will make your week planned. Then you can directly shift to a week-long plan, for example : you should set a short goal to complete your work then track the process often and then try to complete it in a week.
We all know it will be not that easy, what if we failed ? but at the last you will be step closer towards it. Setting the tasks is good thing, if you complete it in time then you are on the right path. If not don’t worry the goal setting will teach you efficient time management. At last you will be better than yesterday. The thing matters here is to be better than today and I think that’s not that hard for you. I know you are capable to do so.
All you need to know
The world facing the huge pandemic- the covid-19. Its worst out there. Nearly it’s been year we are locked -down. The situation is getting worst sometimes. Actually, due to this thing many of are mentally disturbed. We overthink, we be sad for no reason and often get annoyed to simple things in surrounding. We’ve simply had enough: Enough of being inside. Enough of working remotely. Enough of having businesses shut down. Enough of schools being closed. Enough of being isolated. Enough of everything.
We all complain about the things, we live over the excuses in day to today life. You don’t like the way you are – change it. You don’t like what you do – change it. Change is everything and the rule of the mother nature. Adopt yourself in every condition, always be ready to face upcoming hurdles. Complaing about the things is not going to change the situation. You’re the one who can overwrite the story and create new history. Fit in your mind no one is coming to help you in life and no one will is going to save you. Nothing will change until you act for the change. If you make changes on daily basis…. Daily improvements to make your life better. Leo Tolstoy once said: “everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one things of changing himself”.
Actually we all have heard this before many times in life but none of us acted for it. Talking truly we have reason for every problem and solution for the for the problem of others. And that’s just it isn’t it .. you cant change the world until you change yourself. The world could be right, if man could be right. Getting the motivation from other sources wont work until your fuel starts burning. Be self-addicted, self-motivated, self-focused. The day people start talking about you that day would the day you start making changes. You deep inside know you are the problem for the problem because you don’t find the solution for problem. So gradually problems don’t go away and decide to stay up there with you. Knowing that thing and not making the changes is ALL ON YOU.
When you started and you feel like quitting. Remember the all those who said you’d fail. Remember what made you to do this. I know beginning is half done but being in constituency is never done, starting is hard – working on it is tough. Remember pain is temporary greatness lasts forever. You can quit but before that take a deep breath look back into life and ask yourself how bad do you want? Stick it out and get your rewards. The rewards wont leave their home to come up for you. You should approach them , you fail , you approach, you get. If your will and hard work is real rewards can leave their home and live up with you. If you think getting more money is reward then you are on the wrong bus.
At night when you are broke- you ask life why me? For the pains and problem. God whispered why not you? I believed you can do, I know your ability. I am giving you this because I want you to be better. I want you to help. But you doubt yourself, although I believed in you. If you don’t want me ? you will be reasons for the permanent tears and pain in your life. He said you are the solution for the problem until you see it as a problem. You are drowning yourself in a dead sea. Now you are one who will decide what you have to do.