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Yesterday Teacher’s day was celebrated in India (i.e. on 5th of September). It is celebrated in the memory of Dr. Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan on his birth anniversary. He believed that teachers have the best minds in the country. I think not only a person can be a teacher but also qualities teach us many things in its own hidden ways. I have had many great teachers, their knowledge was restricted to only their subject but failure taught me lessons in every walk of life. I believe noone taught me as much as failure did. Failure is and always will be my greatest and wisest guru.

Failure is all encompassing. We only know the worth of success after experiencing failure. The perseverance you show throughout the process helps you build a thicker skin to stay at the zenith when you finally achieve success. No matter how many times you face it always remember it is just trying to create a better and more capable version of yourself.

“Fear is the no.1 motivator.” Whenever you fail you doubt yourself and might even lose faith but their always is atleast a tiniest bit of you who believes in you and cares about your reputation so the fear of facing failure again makes you strive harder the next time. According to me fear makes you a fighter, a survivor, which no inspirational speaker or movie can make you. But only if you realize that fear is wisdom in the face of danger you might respond poorly. So don’t let fear manipulate you, make it your strength to make it guide you.

You might have lost the fighting spirit now but you were a fighter, everyone is as you didn’t start walking the first time you attempted then did you give up, are you still crawling? NO, you kept trying and in no time you started running. You must have burnt your fingers the first time you lifted a hot vessel but only after burning them you got to know the right way, you must have fallen off your bicycle while learning but then you got up to now race bikes, didn’t you? It isn’t wrong to fail, it is necessary!

Thomas Edison a great scientist failed 10000 times before inventing bulb, the greatest discovery which brightened all our lives. He quotes,”I have not failed. I have found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Every time he failed he learned more and moved on without giving up. He further quotes “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

Courage is all it takes to make failure your teacher. Failure always teaches a lesson, if you learn the lesson you haven’t really failed but if you take failure as a dead end then you have truly failed!

Article by : Kalyani Walunj

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The problem solver element: Self Motivation

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Theses days all of the people are integrated with the negative thoughts and feel demotivated. Seems we have lost the battle, we have dropped our weapons and surrounded. Then the question invokes can we get spark to do our things ? can we make our life better than before/now ? Yes, for sure you can do. Just you need to find the reason and lit your lamp with the spark of desire. In short amtanirbhar – motivate yourself. It’s not that difficult or out of the context as we usually think. It’s pretty easy if you are determined but terms and conditions are always applicable.

The first thing you need to do is to find out the thing you love to do most, then try to engage in. As we know success or the happiness is hidden in the work we love. As per human nature we all want to achieve our goals. We day dreamed about that, we always imagine that situation. What if really you are there, so let’s take a step closer towards it. Make your day plans- own plans execute them try to fix bugs and errors that leads you out of it. Adding up the days will make your week planned. Then you can directly shift to a week-long plan, for example : you should set a short goal to complete your work then track the process often and then try to complete it in a week.

We all know it will be not that easy, what if we failed ? but at the last you will be step closer towards it. Setting the tasks is good thing, if you complete it in time then you are on the right path. If not don’t worry the goal setting will teach you efficient time management. At last you will be better than yesterday. The thing matters here is to be better than today and I think that’s not that hard for you. I know you are capable to do so.

Don’t do something because you have to do, work on that because you wanted it to be done. A burning sense of passion is the most potential fuel for your dreams. We all say motivation is just for few days or even few hours, but it depends on our desires. You know you yourself are the unique creature of all time and your desires are fuel that makes you run. Being consistent can make big difference.

Don’t stop when you are tired of it or want to quit, just remember why you started then work on it until you are done with it. We should make self-promises, as because here we can’t lie. Never ever think I am smartest, may be you haven’t meet your better version.

Be into your stuff thoroughly, water your grass such that you don’t even need to check others grasses are green. Every grass will dry one day but will grow much greener other day. Seems nature knows solution to every problem.

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Failure? Complains?
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The world facing the huge pandemic- the covid-19. Its worst out there. Nearly it’s been year we are locked -down. The situation is getting worst sometimes. Actually, due to this thing many of are mentally disturbed. We overthink, we be sad for no reason and often get annoyed to simple things in surrounding. We’ve simply had enough: Enough of being inside. Enough of working remotely. Enough of having businesses shut down. Enough of schools being closed. Enough of being isolated. Enough of everything.

We all complain about the things, we live over the excuses in day to today life. You don’t like the way you are – change it. You don’t like what you do – change it. Change is everything and the rule of the mother nature. Adopt yourself in every condition, always be ready to face upcoming hurdles. Complaing about the things is not going to change the situation. You’re the one who can overwrite the story and create new history. Fit in your mind no one is coming to help you in life and no one will is going to save you. Nothing will change until you act for the change. If you make changes on daily basis…. Daily improvements to make your life better. Leo Tolstoy once said: “everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one things of changing himself”.

Actually we all have heard this before many times in life but none of us acted for it. Talking truly we have reason for every problem and solution for the for the problem of others. And that’s just it isn’t it .. you cant change the world until you change yourself. The world could be right, if man could be right. Getting the motivation from other sources wont work until your fuel starts burning. Be self-addicted, self-motivated, self-focused. The day people start talking about you that day would the day you start making changes. You deep inside know you are the problem for the problem because you don’t find the solution for problem. So gradually problems don’t go away and decide to stay up there with you. Knowing that thing and not making the changes is ALL ON YOU.

When you started and you feel like quitting. Remember the all those who said you’d fail. Remember what made you to do this. I know beginning is half done but being in constituency is never done, starting is hard – working on it is tough. Remember pain is temporary greatness lasts forever. You can quit but before that take a deep breath look back into life and ask yourself how bad do you want? Stick it out and get your rewards. The rewards wont leave their home to come up for you. You should approach them , you fail , you approach, you get. If your will and hard work is real rewards can leave their home and live up with you. If you think getting more money is reward then you are on the wrong bus.

At night when you are broke- you ask life why me? For the pains and problem. God whispered why not you? I believed you can do, I know your ability. I am giving you this because I want you to be better. I want you to help. But you doubt yourself, although I believed in you. If you don’t want me ? you will be reasons for the permanent tears and pain in your life. He said you are the solution for the problem until you see it as a problem. You are drowning yourself in a dead sea. Now you are one who will decide what you have to do.

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How to kill a person with a smile ft. Sakshi Margaje

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Sakshi’s Love for her Audience Proves She’s Queen Of Many hearts.

Sakshi Margaje, the popular Influencer and Social media content creator, puts out every sort of fun content to entertain her audience!
In just a short duration, she has won the hearts of millions through her extremely relatable and funny videos. In an interaction with Paradox India, she opened up on her experience of the content creation journey.

Sakhshi’s videos are all about goofiness and her motivating fitness moves. She enjoys a following of 17k and has acquired more than 30 million likes on the app.

From talking about trolling on social media to the best thing about using Instagram, Margaje revealed it all! Before we get on with her big reveals, check out some of her interesting clips right here:

Her hilarious videos and interesting have become the talk of the town, especially for youth, and she has risen to fame in a very short span of time. Here is everything you need to know about the internet sensation.

The stunning content creator Sakshi Margaje is known for her incredible short clips on Instagram, but it is her style sense we just can’t seem to get enough of! She is a diva, who rocks the feminine, girly-yet-sexy vibes with enviable ease. Her workout gear and body-hugging silhouettes have gained a lot of attention ever since she came into the limelight.

It’s not long since Sakshi started her journey, describing her time period as a content creator she says,”Though I started making videos in September! I never expected that people would shower their tremendous love on me. But as the time passed, I got many messages saying I inspire them with my dedication for fitness and other videos, and they love how positive I am (I am not😂).”

She joyfully said, “People loved the Maharashtrian side of me and they demanded for marathi videos.”
Sakshi is a skillful girl enjoying every bit of her life. She also expressed her fears by saying that, ‘she was kinda insecure at first to make original videos but when people liked what she did, she became confident enough to get into this marathi comedy too.’
She also shared something funny about her followers, well let’s see what juicy she got for all of us now?

“I call my followers Zhandu Baam because the same as Baam they heal the pain’.

We all know how good Sakshi is when it comes to creation of content, but apart from that you will be astonished to know she is a studious girl. She completed her 11th and 12th from Bhandup DAV. Born and brought up in Mumbai (Kanjur Marg) and belonging to a typical Maharashtrian family with thought that study should be the main concern, she was not always praised for the work she did.
“My parents always said “yeh sab thik hai par, padhai karo” 😂 First my mom and dad didn’t give a damn about my content creation thing but now when they see me doing brand collaborations and talking over the net they are somewhere happy and proud,” says Sakshi.

Sakshi being totally herself on social media is a treat to our eyes with her not only goofy but beautifulpics as well!

Concluding with a message for her followers she says,“Never give up or never settle for anything less and love the way you are because no one can love you more than yourself ♥️.”

It’s important that social media influencers talk about things not always being perfect and just “keep it real” with their followers, and it’s so heartwarming to see Sakshi Margaje doing just that. More power to this Supaarwoman!

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