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How can I stay HAPPY forever ?

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No matter what you do and what you have, the end goal of life is to be happy. There is no doubt that in the modern world human life have became bundle of stress and tension. If you are happy you can overcome everything in life.

How can I stay HAPPY forever? This question arises . However, happiness is not a thing which can be shopped, its state of mind and we need to acquire it. There are many factors that contributes to happiness, we must be familiar with them . But these factors play important role .

1. Learn to love yourself :

You can be happy in the life only when you learn to love yourself.

Accept what the nature has given you and believe that you are an unique creation of God. When you will get this belief, you will feel happy.

When one feels good with oneself, life becomes happy and thus enjoyable.

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved – George Sand.

2. Say goodbye to WORRY:

Since man is living in a world full of responsibilities ,he Will surely have certain worries and anxieties. Up to an extent these are helping man to perform better in life. Dr.Willam says ‘ that little tension will help the body to generate more energy to face a particular situation’.

It is the responsibility of each person to utilize this extra energy produced to bring colours. So, there is no need to worry, just say ‘GOODBYE WORRY!’.

3. Never give up attitude:

Failure is something that stops us to achieve goal , ultimately it make us feel unhappy. It happens just because we don’t have the courage to accept failures. As a result we fail and get unhappy. Failures are common, leave them behind and go forward. Develop a never give up attitude.

Remember, success and happiness comes with your efforts and never give up attitude. Even if one doesn’t get what is really deserved, he at least get a kind of happiness and a mental satisfaction.

4. Maintain youthfulness:

Psychologically it has nothing to do with a particular age. Youthfulness can be maintained by anyone of us. Basically, it’s state of mind enjoying a spring season.

Youthfulness completely depends upon ones attitude. There are 2 ways of looking at life.

1. The ‘young in spirit’ will take life asa challenge .

2. The ‘old in spirit’ will consider life as a chain of problems and sorrows.

But, for the young everyday is precious gift. However, with youthfulness life becomes interesting and happy.

5. Don’t be a slave of Anger:

Many people are the slaves anger. Everyone gets angry on certain things, but be mature and try to behave in such a manner ‘ that it would make everyone happy’.

When you learn to control your anger , you will start to live happy life. Control it and make anger your slave. But don’t allow anger to make you it’s slave.

6. Believe in Your Power :

One of the things that, helps you to face life with all its challenges is self belief, if you have faith in your talent and power nobody can stop you from being successful and happy. Some thinks that they are lass talented than others. This feeling fills mind with inferiority complex. Everyone needs to do is to free the mind and be happy.

Everyone on earth is blessed with different talents and abilities. What you need to do is to find them out. If you believe that you are strong like any other man in the world and you can face everything in life.

In short, your happiness lies in your ability to spot your power.

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The problem solver element: Self Motivation

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Theses days all of the people are integrated with the negative thoughts and feel demotivated. Seems we have lost the battle, we have dropped our weapons and surrounded. Then the question invokes can we get spark to do our things ? can we make our life better than before/now ? Yes, for sure you can do. Just you need to find the reason and lit your lamp with the spark of desire. In short amtanirbhar – motivate yourself. It’s not that difficult or out of the context as we usually think. It’s pretty easy if you are determined but terms and conditions are always applicable.

The first thing you need to do is to find out the thing you love to do most, then try to engage in. As we know success or the happiness is hidden in the work we love. As per human nature we all want to achieve our goals. We day dreamed about that, we always imagine that situation. What if really you are there, so let’s take a step closer towards it. Make your day plans- own plans execute them try to fix bugs and errors that leads you out of it. Adding up the days will make your week planned. Then you can directly shift to a week-long plan, for example : you should set a short goal to complete your work then track the process often and then try to complete it in a week.

We all know it will be not that easy, what if we failed ? but at the last you will be step closer towards it. Setting the tasks is good thing, if you complete it in time then you are on the right path. If not don’t worry the goal setting will teach you efficient time management. At last you will be better than yesterday. The thing matters here is to be better than today and I think that’s not that hard for you. I know you are capable to do so.

Don’t do something because you have to do, work on that because you wanted it to be done. A burning sense of passion is the most potential fuel for your dreams. We all say motivation is just for few days or even few hours, but it depends on our desires. You know you yourself are the unique creature of all time and your desires are fuel that makes you run. Being consistent can make big difference.

Don’t stop when you are tired of it or want to quit, just remember why you started then work on it until you are done with it. We should make self-promises, as because here we can’t lie. Never ever think I am smartest, may be you haven’t meet your better version.

Be into your stuff thoroughly, water your grass such that you don’t even need to check others grasses are green. Every grass will dry one day but will grow much greener other day. Seems nature knows solution to every problem.

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Failure? Complains?
All you need to know

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The world facing the huge pandemic- the covid-19. Its worst out there. Nearly it’s been year we are locked -down. The situation is getting worst sometimes. Actually, due to this thing many of are mentally disturbed. We overthink, we be sad for no reason and often get annoyed to simple things in surrounding. We’ve simply had enough: Enough of being inside. Enough of working remotely. Enough of having businesses shut down. Enough of schools being closed. Enough of being isolated. Enough of everything.

We all complain about the things, we live over the excuses in day to today life. You don’t like the way you are – change it. You don’t like what you do – change it. Change is everything and the rule of the mother nature. Adopt yourself in every condition, always be ready to face upcoming hurdles. Complaing about the things is not going to change the situation. You’re the one who can overwrite the story and create new history. Fit in your mind no one is coming to help you in life and no one will is going to save you. Nothing will change until you act for the change. If you make changes on daily basis…. Daily improvements to make your life better. Leo Tolstoy once said: “everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one things of changing himself”.

Actually we all have heard this before many times in life but none of us acted for it. Talking truly we have reason for every problem and solution for the for the problem of others. And that’s just it isn’t it .. you cant change the world until you change yourself. The world could be right, if man could be right. Getting the motivation from other sources wont work until your fuel starts burning. Be self-addicted, self-motivated, self-focused. The day people start talking about you that day would the day you start making changes. You deep inside know you are the problem for the problem because you don’t find the solution for problem. So gradually problems don’t go away and decide to stay up there with you. Knowing that thing and not making the changes is ALL ON YOU.

When you started and you feel like quitting. Remember the all those who said you’d fail. Remember what made you to do this. I know beginning is half done but being in constituency is never done, starting is hard – working on it is tough. Remember pain is temporary greatness lasts forever. You can quit but before that take a deep breath look back into life and ask yourself how bad do you want? Stick it out and get your rewards. The rewards wont leave their home to come up for you. You should approach them , you fail , you approach, you get. If your will and hard work is real rewards can leave their home and live up with you. If you think getting more money is reward then you are on the wrong bus.

At night when you are broke- you ask life why me? For the pains and problem. God whispered why not you? I believed you can do, I know your ability. I am giving you this because I want you to be better. I want you to help. But you doubt yourself, although I believed in you. If you don’t want me ? you will be reasons for the permanent tears and pain in your life. He said you are the solution for the problem until you see it as a problem. You are drowning yourself in a dead sea. Now you are one who will decide what you have to do.

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How to kill a person with a smile ft. Sakshi Margaje

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Sakshi’s Love for her Audience Proves She’s Queen Of Many hearts.

Sakshi Margaje, the popular Influencer and Social media content creator, puts out every sort of fun content to entertain her audience!
In just a short duration, she has won the hearts of millions through her extremely relatable and funny videos. In an interaction with Paradox India, she opened up on her experience of the content creation journey.

Sakhshi’s videos are all about goofiness and her motivating fitness moves. She enjoys a following of 17k and has acquired more than 30 million likes on the app.

From talking about trolling on social media to the best thing about using Instagram, Margaje revealed it all! Before we get on with her big reveals, check out some of her interesting clips right here:

Her hilarious videos and interesting have become the talk of the town, especially for youth, and she has risen to fame in a very short span of time. Here is everything you need to know about the internet sensation.

The stunning content creator Sakshi Margaje is known for her incredible short clips on Instagram, but it is her style sense we just can’t seem to get enough of! She is a diva, who rocks the feminine, girly-yet-sexy vibes with enviable ease. Her workout gear and body-hugging silhouettes have gained a lot of attention ever since she came into the limelight.

It’s not long since Sakshi started her journey, describing her time period as a content creator she says,”Though I started making videos in September! I never expected that people would shower their tremendous love on me. But as the time passed, I got many messages saying I inspire them with my dedication for fitness and other videos, and they love how positive I am (I am not😂).”

She joyfully said, “People loved the Maharashtrian side of me and they demanded for marathi videos.”
Sakshi is a skillful girl enjoying every bit of her life. She also expressed her fears by saying that, ‘she was kinda insecure at first to make original videos but when people liked what she did, she became confident enough to get into this marathi comedy too.’
She also shared something funny about her followers, well let’s see what juicy she got for all of us now?

“I call my followers Zhandu Baam because the same as Baam they heal the pain’.

We all know how good Sakshi is when it comes to creation of content, but apart from that you will be astonished to know she is a studious girl. She completed her 11th and 12th from Bhandup DAV. Born and brought up in Mumbai (Kanjur Marg) and belonging to a typical Maharashtrian family with thought that study should be the main concern, she was not always praised for the work she did.
“My parents always said “yeh sab thik hai par, padhai karo” 😂 First my mom and dad didn’t give a damn about my content creation thing but now when they see me doing brand collaborations and talking over the net they are somewhere happy and proud,” says Sakshi.

Sakshi being totally herself on social media is a treat to our eyes with her not only goofy but beautifulpics as well!

Concluding with a message for her followers she says,“Never give up or never settle for anything less and love the way you are because no one can love you more than yourself ♥️.”

It’s important that social media influencers talk about things not always being perfect and just “keep it real” with their followers, and it’s so heartwarming to see Sakshi Margaje doing just that. More power to this Supaarwoman!

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