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I am a woman – Hear me roar!

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A woman!? No! How about an independent woman? That sounds pretty cool right. But our society somewhere does not think it sounds cool. A woman who is exactly born in the same way how men are born but once they enter the world they aren’t accepted the same way. A girl child i supposed to be a burden  on parents which they have to keep with them for some years and with deals of money  is married to someone unknown with not even bothering about her choice. And since then a woman starts sacrificing and this term somewhere is constant. A girl faces Mensturation in her young age, the cramps, the over bleeding has no option but bearing it and somewhere in all these things she starts becoming more and more strong and nurture the gift of nature  and then more and more struggles comes on her way  it could be about facing mental breakdown at puberty, career, relatives, family pressure or may be love affairs and also the pain of carrying a baby for 9 months in womb with so many mood swings and further giving birth to child is like having a lifetime responsibility which cannot be ignored like we ignore our other responsibilities of keeping a clean healthy world or saving water and these things are not mentioned to dominate men but only to empower woman and just to showcase the reality. But all these things are primarily which every girl faces and this is not a secret anymore Everyone knows about it and change is somewhere in a snail walk though slowly but it’s into action.  But guess what ? if these things are getting well somewhere the modern world has modern issues, even in case of women.

Now a woman, is educated, marries whom she want, has become much more independent than before, she knows how to handle a family with children and also be a CEO. Her decisions are in power. She rules it like a queen. But this queen basically being a woman still is not free to live. Cruel world still think she is just a woman and can’t be more than a wife to her husband and should not have a individual life.A life where she is not asked for her body to get a job, a life where she can wear clothes unapologetically , a life where she feels safe while coming home from office at night, a life where she is not judged by her body shape, a simple  life with basic rights is all a woman wants.

There are women with divorces and heartbreaks they loose all their hope for life, future gets blurred,struggle behind the responsibility of being a single mother is beyond explanation but still some of them stands strong faces this cruel world alone and turns the table. But every individual does not have that power of patience or capacity of bearing the pain and struggle and so some give up. But here’s what we should learn, giving up is neither a solution . It will not create any difference or any awareness. Life is unpredictable. You never know what’s next! It can turn just like a caterpillar turning into a beautiful butterfly. Nothing can stop you if you are strong and focused. Of course it’s way more hard in reality then in these little sentences but there are many inspiring stories in reality which will make you believe that it’s never too late to shine.

Roll your sleeves and let them know that what a woman can do. Let them keep saying that girls are not supposed to debate and keep opinions and you silently battle everyday and make your voice heard with your actions. If they say don’t visit temples on periods worship your work and work more and more harder on difficult days of month. If they laugh at you , you silently laugh at them on their mindset. If they tell you to not sit in weird postures make yourself so powerful that you can make them dance on your orders. Let them shoot you with their words, let them cut you with their eyes, let them kill you with their hatefulness but you still like air keep rising higher and higher. Make them realise that they exist because a woman had carried them for 9 months in her womb ! Show them you can turn every stone into diamond which is unbreakable!


And a open request to all the literate men , you could help the women bring this change where she is treated equally and respectfully. You men are a ray of hope which can make a huge difference in these issues just by respecting a woman. By seeing at her in a way where she has to not manage her clothes but her beautiful hair.Accepting the thought that a lady can be your boss. A wife though at home all day also is on 24 hours of duty being housewife,she also deserves a sunday in a year! Every girl has right to choose her life partner so respect her decision and let your daughter marry the one of her choice. A girl just like a guy wants to hangout and explore her life , let her have fun. And make her believe that you stand by her in all ups and downs.

To every woman out there, who is suffering – stay strong it is said that Good actors are given tough roles to act in a film! And storms make the tress take deeper roots.

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Namita Thapar and her tweet of the decade!

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Namita Thapar: Let’s fix the work-life balance to have a more productive and mentally fit generation.

Executive Director of Emcure Pharmaceuticals and Shark Tank India Judge, Namita Thapar recently tweeted something which started an online debate. She expressed her views on how employees are living a life that is focused on working, and in this, they forget that they have a family as well. Also She asked people to stop wearing the badge that, ‘I work for long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for the family’. She also urged all her fellow entrepreneurs to take steps to improve and maintain the work-life balance of their employees in all the companies. She further added that maintaining the work-life balance of the employees will ensure that, ‘we have a mentally fit and more productive generation’.

“Stop wearing ‘I work long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for family’ as a badge of honour. Let’s fix work life balance at all companies so we have a mentally fit and more productive generation next that get quality time and involvement from both parents”, said Thapar in her tweet.

Thapar’s this tweet caught attention of all the entrepreneurs and common man as well. This tweet sparked an online debate. Majority of the people came in the support of this tweet. They agreed to the statement of Thapar, and said that having a balanced life can help you in many ways. Some of them also came in to support the concept of 4-day work weeks in India. She suggested the companies that they should create a less-pressurized environment in the work-place so that employees can balance their work life and personal life balance. 

Earlier this week, Thapar shared her views on the importance of being inactive. She said that not doing anything can increase the productivity of a person, “alone and quite time for reflection is a must”, she further added in her tweet. 

This tweet became a topic of debate because this topic affects the common men and their families. Maintaining a well-balanced life will not only help them to spend time with their family, but it will also help them in maintaining good relation with their family and friends. This will bring harmony to the family. Most of the people commenting on this post are common man, and they have completely agreed with Thapar’s thoughts. Her tweet has been re-tweeted around 1,183 times and liked by around 8,000 people. She has received a very positive response from the citizens. This tweet got the eyes of many people and her thought was well appreciated.

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We asked girls most attractive things about men! Check out top 5!

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In today’s world it’s an undeniable fact that everyone out there wants to look good. Who wouldn’t, right? An ordinary man can look extra ordinary by adopting few things in his clothing sense.

But one should keep in mind attractive clothes never attracts the person. The way you carry out them, they way you present yourself will make you stand out among the crowd. I am not thoroughly saying the clothes don’t attracts the person, they do attract but we should know perfect combinations, day today styles and should be updated according to the trend.

If you apply few things surely you will be able to impress or attract the person. Here are the few tips will make you look sexier.

Rolled sleeves:

This seems quite simple. The rolled sleeves? Yes, the rolled selves can make you look incredibly sexy and attractive. Women find forearms attractive – If you work out 5-6 times a week, incredibly your forearm will impress anyone out there. When you wear a long sleeve shirt do try this, it will suddenly make you look 100x more attractive. This makes you look manly, cool, bit casual and totally approachable. The best thing about this style is that, it works on any kind of long sleeve clothing- a sweater, button-down shirt, Henley, jackets etc.

Well-fitting Suit:

Mostly men look stunning in the suits. This is the time when you attract the person or leaves your impression behind. That’s the reasons why the all women find Zayn malik sexy. Its not only because he is a good-looking man. It’s because he is a handsome hunk when he’s wearing the suit. Well-fitted, clean cut and the classic one. The thing here matters is not just about what you are wearing, its also about how you’re wearing it.

You won’t look attractive, sexy, capable and powerful in the suit if the fit isn’t right. To get the right fit, make sure the jacket suit fits good at your shoulders snugly. The important thing the sleeves should just end 2 fingers about the wrist bone. Pants should match the jackets, with a proper length and proper fitting. If the fits don’t match your size you can go with personal designed suits.

The stylist shoes:

You won’t believe but the most of people starts looking at you right from the shoes. The shoes are the first things the attracts the attention of many peoples. Actually, shoes can make or break even the most attractive outfit for man. Generally, men don’t care much about the shoes and goes with any kind of shoes with any kind of outfits. This thing may make you look unattractive to women. If you don’t know much about the shoes try wearing the leathers shoes. It will make you look attractive. According to survey it is stated that women seem to find men who wears these shoes as more masculine, intelligent and sexually mature.

Solid tee or Henley:

The solid tee and Henley are the simple outfits for men that will make you look attractive. Talking truly Henley are undeniable sexy. They are also considered better then pain tee. Sometimes solid tee may go out of the style but Henley never go. Mostly the Henley go matching with jeans or any casual pants. It said that in a sea of men wearing t shirts, you will stand out. While still enjoying the comfort of wearing the casual clothes.

Leather jackets:

The leather jackets the nuclear when you talk about looking sexy. The leather jackets are tough but very smooth to touch the women attention. Leather jacket over a solid tee can make your looks upgrade to grade A.

Leather jacket is the thing that all men need to add into their wardrobe. Talking about the facts wearing the leather jackets makes a guy feel more confident. The most important thing man who looks confident can make anything he wears sexy and stunning. Its doesn’t matter he do have a good brand clothes or a good physique. But if she carries himself and look secure with himself and capable of things happen. Then he will be the sexiest man in the room.

IMP:Make sure you don’t judge anyone’s character or a personality with his/her brands. Start investing in yourself, because that will make you look sexier. Investing in a wardrobe won’t make you look sexier. The worst but best truth of today’s world is women finds the men sexier and more attractive who works on themselves, for their dreams, for their passion.

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