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I am a woman – Hear me roar!



A woman!? No! How about an independent woman? That sounds pretty cool right. But our society somewhere does not think it sounds cool. A woman who is exactly born in the same way how men are born but once they enter the world they aren’t accepted the same way. A girl child i supposed to be a burden  on parents which they have to keep with them for some years and with deals of money  is married to someone unknown with not even bothering about her choice. And since then a woman starts sacrificing and this term somewhere is constant. A girl faces Mensturation in her young age, the cramps, the over bleeding has no option but bearing it and somewhere in all these things she starts becoming more and more strong and nurture the gift of nature  and then more and more struggles comes on her way  it could be about facing mental breakdown at puberty, career, relatives, family pressure or may be love affairs and also the pain of carrying a baby for 9 months in womb with so many mood swings and further giving birth to child is like having a lifetime responsibility which cannot be ignored like we ignore our other responsibilities of keeping a clean healthy world or saving water and these things are not mentioned to dominate men but only to empower woman and just to showcase the reality. But all these things are primarily which every girl faces and this is not a secret anymore Everyone knows about it and change is somewhere in a snail walk though slowly but it’s into action.  But guess what ? if these things are getting well somewhere the modern world has modern issues, even in case of women.

Now a woman, is educated, marries whom she want, has become much more independent than before, she knows how to handle a family with children and also be a CEO. Her decisions are in power. She rules it like a queen. But this queen basically being a woman still is not free to live. Cruel world still think she is just a woman and can’t be more than a wife to her husband and should not have a individual life.A life where she is not asked for her body to get a job, a life where she can wear clothes unapologetically , a life where she feels safe while coming home from office at night, a life where she is not judged by her body shape, a simple  life with basic rights is all a woman wants.

There are women with divorces and heartbreaks they loose all their hope for life, future gets blurred,struggle behind the responsibility of being a single mother is beyond explanation but still some of them stands strong faces this cruel world alone and turns the table. But every individual does not have that power of patience or capacity of bearing the pain and struggle and so some give up. But here’s what we should learn, giving up is neither a solution . It will not create any difference or any awareness. Life is unpredictable. You never know what’s next! It can turn just like a caterpillar turning into a beautiful butterfly. Nothing can stop you if you are strong and focused. Of course it’s way more hard in reality then in these little sentences but there are many inspiring stories in reality which will make you believe that it’s never too late to shine.

Roll your sleeves and let them know that what a woman can do. Let them keep saying that girls are not supposed to debate and keep opinions and you silently battle everyday and make your voice heard with your actions. If they say don’t visit temples on periods worship your work and work more and more harder on difficult days of month. If they laugh at you , you silently laugh at them on their mindset. If they tell you to not sit in weird postures make yourself so powerful that you can make them dance on your orders. Let them shoot you with their words, let them cut you with their eyes, let them kill you with their hatefulness but you still like air keep rising higher and higher. Make them realise that they exist because a woman had carried them for 9 months in her womb ! Show them you can turn every stone into diamond which is unbreakable!

And a open request to all the literate men , you could help the women bring this change where she is treated equally and respectfully. You men are a ray of hope which can make a huge difference in these issues just by respecting a woman. By seeing at her in a way where she has to not manage her clothes but her beautiful hair.Accepting the thought that a lady can be your boss. A wife though at home all day also is on 24 hours of duty being housewife,she also deserves a sunday in a year! Every girl has right to choose her life partner so respect her decision and let your daughter marry the one of her choice. A girl just like a guy wants to hangout and explore her life , let her have fun. And make her believe that you stand by her in all ups and downs.

To every woman out there, who is suffering – stay strong it is said that Good actors are given tough roles to act in a film! And storms make the tress take deeper roots.

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The solo traveller: Aarya Vora



Solo travelling! Why is this considered as a big milestone? For a long time, solo
travelling was considered to be too outrageous, especially for women.
In the last decade or so, with the advent of different trends in the travel industry – it can be said – has received a facelift. Women have embraced their adventurous side like never before.

Paradox had a live session with a very young and passionate person who is
enthusiastic about travelling since her childhood and nowadays has become a
blooming limelight because of her journeys in different parts of the world. She is an Actor, Model, Vlogger, and a Traveller- Aarya Vora.

Aarya Vora, social media star formerly known as Trupti Vora, started her career as a model in Ahmedabad. Graduated from HL College, and have been pursuing her dreams for a couple of years. She starred in multiple platforms: My Friend
Ganesha (lead role), south films like Padaharella Vaysu, Nirdosh and
Tirumandiram, TV Serials such as Devo ke Dev Mahadev, and multiple Gujarati
productions, some of which were successful and moved ahead with about
200-400 episodes.
No doubt this pandemic was troublesome for many of us but was also an opportunity for many to turn their life around. The sultry actress launched her YouTube channel in the times of lockdown with her Vlogs like ‘Mumbai during Lockdown’, ‘Lockdown Shopping’, ‘and Finding love in Lockdown ’,‘ Lockdown Trap ’,‘ Quarantine Effect and Online Marriage’ got immensely popular. OTT and YouTube channels are breakthrough mediums for entertainment for the
people nowadays. So Aarya decided to capture her solo travelling moments and bring out something entertaining for people. “I am hoping to bring quality entertainment and right information for them through my vlogs,” says Aarya. This ambidextrous actress enjoys solo travelling and is in a love with this wonderful world. She has already stepped into exploring cooking, travelling, fashion, dancing on her channel.

Arya’s journey being a travel vlogger left her scrutinizing Udaipur, Amritsar,
Himachal Pradesh, and South Goa in 2020, all she did by taking precautionary actions which were required during these lockdowns. Apart from Indian destinations she has been to Turkey, Ukraine, Dubai, and Singapore.

Let’s get enrolled into her travel journey and know-how, a trip can be scheduled and enjoyed to the fullest.

Q. You are a multifaceted girl with multiple dreams! From a Successful actress to a successful fashion blogger & solo traveller, how has the transition been?

Aarya: It was an amazing experience. My transitions from being a model, actor, business person to a blogger and solo traveller taught me a lot. I always loved solo travelling and I already used to travel from before. I love to travel just by myself and take up challenges. So sooner or later I was going to turn my passion into a profession, and now finally I did it. So I am happy about it.

Q. Being a solo traveller, how do your research and planning take place? What do you think is the most difficult part of planning a solo trip?

Aarya: Doing a solo trip, however, is easier said than done and even more so
when you are doing it for the first time. There are a lot of things – from budget to itinerary – to be planned. Definitely research is very important before I decide to travel. I have to note down all the main points, where to go, how to explore the place, in which hotel I would stay, how to book tickets, transportation to go from one place to another.
Managing everything on your own is somewhere the most difficult part of being a solo traveller. Especially when you are sick you feel very helpless. Talking about budget, two things that determine your solo trip budget to a considerable extent are transportation and accommodation. Accommodation, however, is the trickiest part of all. In every city or small town, you will find luxury establishments as well as budget boarding places. So, be sure where you have to stay before you leave.

Q. What is the best thing about being a solo traveller?

Aarya: I believe you will be free of the term ‘Dependency’. Best thing about being a solo traveller is that you don’t have to depend on anyone. When you’re on vacation alone, the lack of familiar people to interact with forces you to engage much more directly with your surroundings—on where you are rather than who you’re with. Since you have to take care of everything on your own and handle difficult situations on your own, it makes you more independent and brave. Solo travel is an opportunity to discover yourself as you discover the world. You can inject a bit of challenge into your life which might otherwise be on autopilot.

Q. The old saying states that travelling makes the world feel smaller. What do
you think, the world grows beyond expectations or it just shrinks when you travel to the other end of the world?

Aarya: I feel like the world grows. Travel also makes the world feel bigger.
Exponentially. The more you see, the more you realize there is to see. And it
feels like crazy exploring the habitual of any place. I have read a lot of
information about India and everyone would have had an intellectual concept of it. But now I have smelled the hot stench of the streets of Delhi. Got the beautiful experience of loud jangle of the music and admired the way the sun makes the marble of the Taj Mahal glow. Any place I visited is real to me now, in taste, sight, sound, feel and smell. This excites me to explore more, because the world is infinite.

Q. Does traveling make you a better person?

Aarya: The way travelling helps us is unique. It increases self-awareness.
Being more open to others while on our journey, also makes us more open to
ourselves. You learn to embrace the unexpected when things don’t go to plan. As I missed my flight while returning from Canada, anyhow I managed the situation. You learn to trust your instincts and follow your own path with a deep respect for
others. In simple words you become more genuine and a nice human.

Q. Is it hard to become a Solo Traveller? Do you worry about being a solo traveller before setting off?

Aarya: A solo traveler needs to learn many new skills, and among the many skills required, is the talent to take your own pictures for the perfect memoirs. It is not only the places that matter, but your presence in them that makes the difference.

People who have never traveled alone often describe their first solo trip as a
most wonderful experience of life.
Of course, traveling alone has its perils too— There’s the mental hurdles to
overcome. And then there’s also the practical stuff that makes travelling that little bit more difficult when you’re alone. Such as safety concerns, loneliness, and the dreaded single supplement. Also, solo travel might be boring for some, or in certain cases, but to others (like myself), it could be quite fulfilling. Solo travel can be the ultimate in self-indulgence; you can rest when you want and pour it on when you’re feeling ambitious. And there is no one to judge. It’s your own day to salvage or chalk up to a learning experience. You can do exactly what you want to do—all the time.

Q. Is it better to plan out a trip or just leave everything open-ended?

Aarya: Solo travel is a pretty sweet deal. But it can be hefty.
When I’m going to a new place and have a short time-frame, I prefer to plan out some of the bigger things that I want to do, especially if I need to purchase tickets ahead of time…like I did in Ukraine or Dubai. Honestly, planning helps you to sort out the thing you wanted to do. It makes the process easier and the trip, more enjoyable. Flight Tickets, Accommodation, Traveling locations, everything
needed to be sorted for an assured safe journey. Pointing out my life, planning
works best for me and my travel style.

Q. What is your idea of success or your mantra in life?

Aarya: “There is no mantra to achieve anything in life. It’s hard-work and your dreams that make you different from others. For eg: I travel solo, there are a lot of girls who travel solo and I’m not the only one who is doing this. I’m different because I go for experience, do something adventurous and explore unexplored parts of the world.”

Q. What are some common items that travelers bring with them?

Aarya: According to the point of Travellers, we really don’t know what will be needed at what time. So, be ready for the worse.

When it comes to traveling, we are indeed to be practically aware of the items to pack. To avoid any inconvenience on the go, research about the place where you are going. Suppose if it’s a Hill station, then make sure you grab everything to make yourself warm. First Aid and some light snacks.

Q. When you see yourself as a Vlogger and influencer, what does that mean to

Aarya : It fits in as a great responsibility. Being an influencer means people follow you and believe in what you say. At present I’m promoting plenty of big and famous brands. So, I feel it’s my responsibility to count on the Right one for them. Right now the blogging industry is booming and I’m glad to be a part of it and be able to reach out to people. Since our fan followers get influenced by what we post or blog, so whenever I blog or post something I make sure I keep my fan
followers in my mind.

For Aarya, travel is Freedom, Elation and Discovery!
She feels like traveling allows her to grow. In a weird way it gives her permission to be herself. Discover a deeper level within!

Follow Actress Arya Vora’s YouTube videos, that are always incorporated with lots of fun experiences and this will help you with some awesome tips to get to know about adventurous mode trips. So, do Subscribe to her channel to see more exciting videos of her traveling and make your plan to make some adventures and memorable trips in the year 2021.

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The sleeping Giant.



In this vast world, you are the most important person. “Stop thinking about other people in the world and start thinking about yourself: in past pages of the history there was never anyone else exactly like you, and in all the infinity of time to come, there will be never another.”

Basically, you are the creature for your creativities, you are the product of your: heredity, environment, physical body, conscious and subconscious mind, experience, pain, time and hard work……. And something more, including powers known and unknown. You, yourself are the mystery box with key. You just need to unlock yourself at the right time and at the right place.

You have the power to affect, use, control, or harmonize with all of them. And you can direct your thoughts, control your emotions and ordain your destiny with yourself. Just learn to be with yourself. Just interact with yourself. For you are mind with a body.

MIND consists of the gigantic powers. Powers of the conscious and subconscious mind. One is the giant that never sleeps and other is which when asleep is powerless. When awakened, his potential power is beyond our imagination. The thing is that we need to explore it, need to awaken it and need to use it in the right direction.

What wouldst thou have? “What wouldst thou have? I am ready to obey thee as thy slave — I and the others slave of the lamp,” said the genie.

Awakening the sleeping giant in you is the most important thing you have to do now. This giant is the most powerful creature in the world. More powerful than genii of ALADDIN’S lamp. The genii are fictional but you, yourself are real sleeping giant. Now the sleeping giant, like the genie, must be summoned with magic. But you posses this magic. The magic is your positive mental attitude. Your perspective towards life, towards problem, towards everything will decide the power of the magic inside you.

That magic has power to bring the wishes into reality. You are on the journey called life. That’s where you’ve been launched. You are boarding the ship and you are the pilot. That’s because you are going somewhere. You are not standing still and hoping for the best. You are on the way through rough and often unfamiliar waters. To reach the end of journey, you need many skills of navigation. So, invest time and what you have on skills. Saving money won’t make you rich or happy but investing them on your skills would definitely give you high return. These returns would stay with you till end of the life.

Ahead of you may be disappointment, adversities, and dangers. These are the rocks and hidden shoals past which you must sail on your course. Don’t wait for the help and motivation. If you want that thing acct for it, do whatever is necessary. Instead of dreaming ‘one day’ start making it ‘day 1’. “Anything in life worth having is worth working for”.

Some part of this article is from book, success through a positive mental attitude.

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Protect your phone



We understand how close people are with their phones, and not only because they have to, but also because of the cost and features. Some people invest all their income so as to buy the best phone they can afford. And for that people need to know how to extend your phone’s battery life or even save your phone from different mishappenings that might occur in our day to day lives. So, here we are with some tips and tricks that can help you to save your phone from such mishaps
1. Tempered glass and back cover :- Always use your phone with tempered glass and back cover on. This might save your phone from dangerous falls. Also, try to use a tempered glass that covers each and every section of your screen. Also, use a back cover which has extension on its four sides that will help it not to get scratched when it falls down. Well, as you know it’s better to scratch or break a thing that will cost you only 200/- than to break something which will cost you a fortune.
2. Avoid software updates after two generations :- Phone manufacturers only provide software support for approximately two generations. This is the reason that the latest iOS updates are only compatible with the 4S and later models. In some cases, you will have the ability to update even if your device is older, but it is very likely that doing so will cause a lot of performance issues.
This may be because it is difficult to create stable updates that will work across a wide variety of devices, but most people believe that the reality is more sinister. After all, why would Apple want to keep making updates available for older phones when they can simply push consumers into making a new purchase every couple of years? Either way, you can extend the life of your smartphone by avoiding updates after two new generations have been released.
3. Power down regularly :- You would never leave your laptop running for several weeks at a time, yet most of you have not turned your smartphone off in months. Keep in mind that your phone is very similar to a computer in many ways. Simply allowing your phone to power down for a few minutes at least once a week will help it run more efficiently, and this will also extend its useful life.
4. Remove unnecessary photos and videos :- Almost every smartphone user has experienced serious lag times that make it frustrating to use their mobile device. In the vast majority of cases, this happens because the storage and RAM capabilities of the smartphone are being maxed out. This can make the phone much less responsive, and it often convinces people to upgrade before they truly need to. To avoid this unnecessary expense, make sure that you regularly remove any apps, photos, documents or text messages that you do not actually need.
5. never share your privacy :- always keep in touch with all the widgets from the notifications area, turn them off when not in use like location, Bluetooth, hotspot, these can be very dangerous from your privacy concerns and also for viruses or other harmfull softwares.

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