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When we enter a phase where we feel all eyes are on us, where we feel we are kept in a cocoon,where our dreams start adding up, where our mind can be diverted and like many say it can either make it or we can get off track, then we say welcome to the PUBERTY.

Teen. An age of thousands of questions in head. Teen is for some of them a age of life where they enjoy, have fun but for some as getting the burden of responsibilities on their shoulders and knowing the burden is going to stay for a while until so called “life aims” are not gained. Being a teen we come up with the trends and occupy and mould it in us. We start to make ourselves fit in this world where they say life is a race. Well, society varies as per our lifestyles but in any of the society we are told to follow the rules as they are. We start knowing the term “Log kya kahenge” and hence just learn to behave well, follow rules.
In this age where teens are supposed to run behind exploring life, they run behind marks, ranks. Surrounding talks by our parents, relatives we start understanding that how much those little numbers can make change in our lives and this understanding remains a truth only until we get them after that we realize ‘scene toh kuch alag hi hai boss’!

We start to know why humans have no wings! We cannot just fly, the world full of judgments, curses won’t let us fly. We live for society, we get bothered by what people say and we start putting efforts for them, but as an adult, the right advise is follow your aims, passion and work hard wherever you can Log toh kahenge unka kaam hai kehna! But as a teen keep happiness your priority .

Well, apart from these life achievement things we also realise that there are rules for even being in love, having a feeling of attraction to someone. It so hard to understand the fact that in teenage the feeling of love and attraction in heart is normal and everyone feels the same. Why it is something which is not right in eyes of society, why the teenagers are said to be spoiled if they have just well secreted hormones. There are so many teenager in India basically who don’t have courage to even speak what they feel about someone to their parents. What problems will they share ,if they can’t share the happiness of heart and sometimes biggest sorrows ,but the problems should be discussed in family itself to avoid the hasty decisions.

Teenage is a age where the mind is a bit of child and a bit of grown up. In this period of life we feel to be in gossips and try to be the coolest in schools/ colleges. Some of them get into drugs thinking that’s cool just because others do.The flickering mind don’t think about the consequences and just go with the flow. We forget the difference between enjoying the life and risking the life. And there are many stories in reality in case of drugs which has ruined teenagers lives. Teenagers are told by the big ones that be around a good circle of friends but no says to first you yourself be a good friend.

Bullying is another very serious issue teenage faces. Mental breakdown is for real. Facing humiliation is not bearable for some of them and so gives up loosing all the confidence in life. Bullying is so cruel which includes beating up with bunch of guys, making them humiliated on social media by sharing personal stuffs. In the period where one has so many problems and pressure from family they face bullying which just forces them to quit. There are lot of ego trips in the young blood which brings them in so much of trouble later. Some of them are away from their families, comes for studies to unknown cities and unknown people and on first day itself are welcomed by their seniors with full of disrespect and humiliation.

From a teenager to being a adult, we grasp how awful our society is and mould ourselves with it. Everyone has their own stories in life being a teenager full of happiness being with friends, anger, tears, sacrifices, tolerance. Some enjoy and have a epic teenage and some start playing with burdens and responsibilities instead of games. Every single person has their own journey, but every journey has something or other to learn as well.

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The problem solver element: Self Motivation

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Theses days all of the people are integrated with the negative thoughts and feel demotivated. Seems we have lost the battle, we have dropped our weapons and surrounded. Then the question invokes can we get spark to do our things ? can we make our life better than before/now ? Yes, for sure you can do. Just you need to find the reason and lit your lamp with the spark of desire. In short amtanirbhar – motivate yourself. It’s not that difficult or out of the context as we usually think. It’s pretty easy if you are determined but terms and conditions are always applicable.

The first thing you need to do is to find out the thing you love to do most, then try to engage in. As we know success or the happiness is hidden in the work we love. As per human nature we all want to achieve our goals. We day dreamed about that, we always imagine that situation. What if really you are there, so let’s take a step closer towards it. Make your day plans- own plans execute them try to fix bugs and errors that leads you out of it. Adding up the days will make your week planned. Then you can directly shift to a week-long plan, for example : you should set a short goal to complete your work then track the process often and then try to complete it in a week.

We all know it will be not that easy, what if we failed ? but at the last you will be step closer towards it. Setting the tasks is good thing, if you complete it in time then you are on the right path. If not don’t worry the goal setting will teach you efficient time management. At last you will be better than yesterday. The thing matters here is to be better than today and I think that’s not that hard for you. I know you are capable to do so.

Don’t do something because you have to do, work on that because you wanted it to be done. A burning sense of passion is the most potential fuel for your dreams. We all say motivation is just for few days or even few hours, but it depends on our desires. You know you yourself are the unique creature of all time and your desires are fuel that makes you run. Being consistent can make big difference.

Don’t stop when you are tired of it or want to quit, just remember why you started then work on it until you are done with it. We should make self-promises, as because here we can’t lie. Never ever think I am smartest, may be you haven’t meet your better version.

Be into your stuff thoroughly, water your grass such that you don’t even need to check others grasses are green. Every grass will dry one day but will grow much greener other day. Seems nature knows solution to every problem.

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Failure? Complains?
All you need to know

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The world facing the huge pandemic- the covid-19. Its worst out there. Nearly it’s been year we are locked -down. The situation is getting worst sometimes. Actually, due to this thing many of are mentally disturbed. We overthink, we be sad for no reason and often get annoyed to simple things in surrounding. We’ve simply had enough: Enough of being inside. Enough of working remotely. Enough of having businesses shut down. Enough of schools being closed. Enough of being isolated. Enough of everything.

We all complain about the things, we live over the excuses in day to today life. You don’t like the way you are – change it. You don’t like what you do – change it. Change is everything and the rule of the mother nature. Adopt yourself in every condition, always be ready to face upcoming hurdles. Complaing about the things is not going to change the situation. You’re the one who can overwrite the story and create new history. Fit in your mind no one is coming to help you in life and no one will is going to save you. Nothing will change until you act for the change. If you make changes on daily basis…. Daily improvements to make your life better. Leo Tolstoy once said: “everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one things of changing himself”.

Actually we all have heard this before many times in life but none of us acted for it. Talking truly we have reason for every problem and solution for the for the problem of others. And that’s just it isn’t it .. you cant change the world until you change yourself. The world could be right, if man could be right. Getting the motivation from other sources wont work until your fuel starts burning. Be self-addicted, self-motivated, self-focused. The day people start talking about you that day would the day you start making changes. You deep inside know you are the problem for the problem because you don’t find the solution for problem. So gradually problems don’t go away and decide to stay up there with you. Knowing that thing and not making the changes is ALL ON YOU.

When you started and you feel like quitting. Remember the all those who said you’d fail. Remember what made you to do this. I know beginning is half done but being in constituency is never done, starting is hard – working on it is tough. Remember pain is temporary greatness lasts forever. You can quit but before that take a deep breath look back into life and ask yourself how bad do you want? Stick it out and get your rewards. The rewards wont leave their home to come up for you. You should approach them , you fail , you approach, you get. If your will and hard work is real rewards can leave their home and live up with you. If you think getting more money is reward then you are on the wrong bus.

At night when you are broke- you ask life why me? For the pains and problem. God whispered why not you? I believed you can do, I know your ability. I am giving you this because I want you to be better. I want you to help. But you doubt yourself, although I believed in you. If you don’t want me ? you will be reasons for the permanent tears and pain in your life. He said you are the solution for the problem until you see it as a problem. You are drowning yourself in a dead sea. Now you are one who will decide what you have to do.

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How to kill a person with a smile ft. Sakshi Margaje

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Sakshi’s Love for her Audience Proves She’s Queen Of Many hearts.

Sakshi Margaje, the popular Influencer and Social media content creator, puts out every sort of fun content to entertain her audience!
In just a short duration, she has won the hearts of millions through her extremely relatable and funny videos. In an interaction with Paradox India, she opened up on her experience of the content creation journey.

Sakhshi’s videos are all about goofiness and her motivating fitness moves. She enjoys a following of 17k and has acquired more than 30 million likes on the app.

From talking about trolling on social media to the best thing about using Instagram, Margaje revealed it all! Before we get on with her big reveals, check out some of her interesting clips right here:

Her hilarious videos and interesting have become the talk of the town, especially for youth, and she has risen to fame in a very short span of time. Here is everything you need to know about the internet sensation.

The stunning content creator Sakshi Margaje is known for her incredible short clips on Instagram, but it is her style sense we just can’t seem to get enough of! She is a diva, who rocks the feminine, girly-yet-sexy vibes with enviable ease. Her workout gear and body-hugging silhouettes have gained a lot of attention ever since she came into the limelight.

It’s not long since Sakshi started her journey, describing her time period as a content creator she says,”Though I started making videos in September! I never expected that people would shower their tremendous love on me. But as the time passed, I got many messages saying I inspire them with my dedication for fitness and other videos, and they love how positive I am (I am not😂).”

She joyfully said, “People loved the Maharashtrian side of me and they demanded for marathi videos.”
Sakshi is a skillful girl enjoying every bit of her life. She also expressed her fears by saying that, ‘she was kinda insecure at first to make original videos but when people liked what she did, she became confident enough to get into this marathi comedy too.’
She also shared something funny about her followers, well let’s see what juicy she got for all of us now?

“I call my followers Zhandu Baam because the same as Baam they heal the pain’.

We all know how good Sakshi is when it comes to creation of content, but apart from that you will be astonished to know she is a studious girl. She completed her 11th and 12th from Bhandup DAV. Born and brought up in Mumbai (Kanjur Marg) and belonging to a typical Maharashtrian family with thought that study should be the main concern, she was not always praised for the work she did.
“My parents always said “yeh sab thik hai par, padhai karo” 😂 First my mom and dad didn’t give a damn about my content creation thing but now when they see me doing brand collaborations and talking over the net they are somewhere happy and proud,” says Sakshi.

Sakshi being totally herself on social media is a treat to our eyes with her not only goofy but beautifulpics as well!

Concluding with a message for her followers she says,“Never give up or never settle for anything less and love the way you are because no one can love you more than yourself ♥️.”

It’s important that social media influencers talk about things not always being perfect and just “keep it real” with their followers, and it’s so heartwarming to see Sakshi Margaje doing just that. More power to this Supaarwoman!

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