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When we enter a phase where we feel all eyes are on us, where we feel we are kept in a cocoon,where our dreams start adding up, where our mind can be diverted and like many say it can either make it or we can get off track, then we say welcome to the PUBERTY.

Teen. An age of thousands of questions in head. Teen is for some of them a age of life where they enjoy, have fun but for some as getting the burden of responsibilities on their shoulders and knowing the burden is going to stay for a while until so called “life aims” are not gained. Being a teen we come up with the trends and occupy and mould it in us. We start to make ourselves fit in this world where they say life is a race. Well, society varies as per our lifestyles but in any of the society we are told to follow the rules as they are. We start knowing the term “Log kya kahenge” and hence just learn to behave well, follow rules.
In this age where teens are supposed to run behind exploring life, they run behind marks, ranks. Surrounding talks by our parents, relatives we start understanding that how much those little numbers can make change in our lives and this understanding remains a truth only until we get them after that we realize ‘scene toh kuch alag hi hai boss’!

We start to know why humans have no wings! We cannot just fly, the world full of judgments, curses won’t let us fly. We live for society, we get bothered by what people say and we start putting efforts for them, but as an adult, the right advise is follow your aims, passion and work hard wherever you can Log toh kahenge unka kaam hai kehna! But as a teen keep happiness your priority .

Well, apart from these life achievement things we also realise that there are rules for even being in love, having a feeling of attraction to someone. It so hard to understand the fact that in teenage the feeling of love and attraction in heart is normal and everyone feels the same. Why it is something which is not right in eyes of society, why the teenagers are said to be spoiled if they have just well secreted hormones. There are so many teenager in India basically who don’t have courage to even speak what they feel about someone to their parents. What problems will they share ,if they can’t share the happiness of heart and sometimes biggest sorrows ,but the problems should be discussed in family itself to avoid the hasty decisions.

Teenage is a age where the mind is a bit of child and a bit of grown up. In this period of life we feel to be in gossips and try to be the coolest in schools/ colleges. Some of them get into drugs thinking that’s cool just because others do.The flickering mind don’t think about the consequences and just go with the flow. We forget the difference between enjoying the life and risking the life. And there are many stories in reality in case of drugs which has ruined teenagers lives. Teenagers are told by the big ones that be around a good circle of friends but no says to first you yourself be a good friend.

Bullying is another very serious issue teenage faces. Mental breakdown is for real. Facing humiliation is not bearable for some of them and so gives up loosing all the confidence in life. Bullying is so cruel which includes beating up with bunch of guys, making them humiliated on social media by sharing personal stuffs. In the period where one has so many problems and pressure from family they face bullying which just forces them to quit. There are lot of ego trips in the young blood which brings them in so much of trouble later. Some of them are away from their families, comes for studies to unknown cities and unknown people and on first day itself are welcomed by their seniors with full of disrespect and humiliation.

From a teenager to being a adult, we grasp how awful our society is and mould ourselves with it. Everyone has their own stories in life being a teenager full of happiness being with friends, anger, tears, sacrifices, tolerance. Some enjoy and have a epic teenage and some start playing with burdens and responsibilities instead of games. Every single person has their own journey, but every journey has something or other to learn as well.

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Namita Thapar and her tweet of the decade!

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Namita Thapar: Let’s fix the work-life balance to have a more productive and mentally fit generation.

Executive Director of Emcure Pharmaceuticals and Shark Tank India Judge, Namita Thapar recently tweeted something which started an online debate. She expressed her views on how employees are living a life that is focused on working, and in this, they forget that they have a family as well. Also She asked people to stop wearing the badge that, ‘I work for long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for the family’. She also urged all her fellow entrepreneurs to take steps to improve and maintain the work-life balance of their employees in all the companies. She further added that maintaining the work-life balance of the employees will ensure that, ‘we have a mentally fit and more productive generation’.

“Stop wearing ‘I work long hours, I travel a lot, I have no time for family’ as a badge of honour. Let’s fix work life balance at all companies so we have a mentally fit and more productive generation next that get quality time and involvement from both parents”, said Thapar in her tweet.

Thapar’s this tweet caught attention of all the entrepreneurs and common man as well. This tweet sparked an online debate. Majority of the people came in the support of this tweet. They agreed to the statement of Thapar, and said that having a balanced life can help you in many ways. Some of them also came in to support the concept of 4-day work weeks in India. She suggested the companies that they should create a less-pressurized environment in the work-place so that employees can balance their work life and personal life balance. 

Earlier this week, Thapar shared her views on the importance of being inactive. She said that not doing anything can increase the productivity of a person, “alone and quite time for reflection is a must”, she further added in her tweet. 

This tweet became a topic of debate because this topic affects the common men and their families. Maintaining a well-balanced life will not only help them to spend time with their family, but it will also help them in maintaining good relation with their family and friends. This will bring harmony to the family. Most of the people commenting on this post are common man, and they have completely agreed with Thapar’s thoughts. Her tweet has been re-tweeted around 1,183 times and liked by around 8,000 people. She has received a very positive response from the citizens. This tweet got the eyes of many people and her thought was well appreciated.

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We asked girls most attractive things about men! Check out top 5!

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In today’s world it’s an undeniable fact that everyone out there wants to look good. Who wouldn’t, right? An ordinary man can look extra ordinary by adopting few things in his clothing sense.

But one should keep in mind attractive clothes never attracts the person. The way you carry out them, they way you present yourself will make you stand out among the crowd. I am not thoroughly saying the clothes don’t attracts the person, they do attract but we should know perfect combinations, day today styles and should be updated according to the trend.

If you apply few things surely you will be able to impress or attract the person. Here are the few tips will make you look sexier.

Rolled sleeves:

This seems quite simple. The rolled sleeves? Yes, the rolled selves can make you look incredibly sexy and attractive. Women find forearms attractive – If you work out 5-6 times a week, incredibly your forearm will impress anyone out there. When you wear a long sleeve shirt do try this, it will suddenly make you look 100x more attractive. This makes you look manly, cool, bit casual and totally approachable. The best thing about this style is that, it works on any kind of long sleeve clothing- a sweater, button-down shirt, Henley, jackets etc.

Well-fitting Suit:

Mostly men look stunning in the suits. This is the time when you attract the person or leaves your impression behind. That’s the reasons why the all women find Zayn malik sexy. Its not only because he is a good-looking man. It’s because he is a handsome hunk when he’s wearing the suit. Well-fitted, clean cut and the classic one. The thing here matters is not just about what you are wearing, its also about how you’re wearing it.

You won’t look attractive, sexy, capable and powerful in the suit if the fit isn’t right. To get the right fit, make sure the jacket suit fits good at your shoulders snugly. The important thing the sleeves should just end 2 fingers about the wrist bone. Pants should match the jackets, with a proper length and proper fitting. If the fits don’t match your size you can go with personal designed suits.

The stylist shoes:

You won’t believe but the most of people starts looking at you right from the shoes. The shoes are the first things the attracts the attention of many peoples. Actually, shoes can make or break even the most attractive outfit for man. Generally, men don’t care much about the shoes and goes with any kind of shoes with any kind of outfits. This thing may make you look unattractive to women. If you don’t know much about the shoes try wearing the leathers shoes. It will make you look attractive. According to survey it is stated that women seem to find men who wears these shoes as more masculine, intelligent and sexually mature.

Solid tee or Henley:

The solid tee and Henley are the simple outfits for men that will make you look attractive. Talking truly Henley are undeniable sexy. They are also considered better then pain tee. Sometimes solid tee may go out of the style but Henley never go. Mostly the Henley go matching with jeans or any casual pants. It said that in a sea of men wearing t shirts, you will stand out. While still enjoying the comfort of wearing the casual clothes.

Leather jackets:

The leather jackets the nuclear when you talk about looking sexy. The leather jackets are tough but very smooth to touch the women attention. Leather jacket over a solid tee can make your looks upgrade to grade A.

Leather jacket is the thing that all men need to add into their wardrobe. Talking about the facts wearing the leather jackets makes a guy feel more confident. The most important thing man who looks confident can make anything he wears sexy and stunning. Its doesn’t matter he do have a good brand clothes or a good physique. But if she carries himself and look secure with himself and capable of things happen. Then he will be the sexiest man in the room.

IMP:Make sure you don’t judge anyone’s character or a personality with his/her brands. Start investing in yourself, because that will make you look sexier. Investing in a wardrobe won’t make you look sexier. The worst but best truth of today’s world is women finds the men sexier and more attractive who works on themselves, for their dreams, for their passion.

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